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Chapter 12

The Juniors
Who Stayed

The proper way

Find grass. Find a coach who watches. Keep showing up.

I've had juniors who came back. Week after week. Rain or shine. They didn't have the perfect swing. They didn't have expensive clubs. But they showed up.

Those are the ones I teach for.

Not the ones who want a quick fix. Not the ones who think they know it all because they watched a YouTube video. The ones who stay. The ones who laugh at a bad shot and ask, "What did I do wrong?"

Those kids are the reason I still teach.

I'm down to four students now. Not ten. Four. Because teachers didn't show up. Also because four is easier to yell at.

Here's a lesson for the youngsters: Stay off the mats with concrete underneath. They hide your mistakes. You'll hit the ground first and still get a decent shot, but on grass that same swing digs a trench. Your wrists and elbows will thank you. Grass tells the truth. It shows you what you actually did. A mat lies. A blade club tells the truth. A mat never does.

It's also great that when you teach, you never have to tell them in the future: "Get your shit together or leave." They either respect what they're doing or they don't. If they don't, they've got to leave.

I've had a few kids leave because they couldn't handle hearing this. That's not on me.

You can't learn the proper way on concrete. You learn to fake it.

So find grass. Find a coach who watches. Find a friend who laughs with you. And keep showing up.

Four students. Sometimes ten. But always the ones who stay.

If you're a junior reading this – keep showing up. I'll keep teaching. That's the proper way.